Showing posts with label sacrifice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sacrifice. Show all posts

Monday, March 1, 2010

Cosmic Education

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Cosmic Education


Cosmic education is that education which opens up for the child a vision of all that the world was meant to be, through collaboration of man’s efforts with God’s. “This is what cosmic education for the child entails: the image of God as He functions in the cosmos to create the earth and of man, who from his beginnings in nature evolved to create the supranature in which we live today… to bring about the spiritual union of a humanity that materially is already one.” To the child is revealed a united vision of sometimes seemingly disparate parts, of disciplines, life efforts, ways of life; indeed nothing happens in isolation – all things come together for some purpose. True cosmic education can only come about when “education is understood as a help to life and development.” Even “more than education, gratitude to God and Man should form part of Man's psychic formation. It should accompany him from birth to death.”


The child’s work in the casa is built upon, expanded and crystallized in the elementary environment where the child receives the Great Stories; the child delves into various aspects of each story, uniting himself with the work of 4,000 year old man and the man of tomorrow into whom the child is constructing himself.


Mario Montessori discusses the interconnectedness of the corals, the forests, the insects who pollinate, and others. What is interesting is the loss of the coral reefs due to various conditions which prevent them from doing their tasks, and the ensuing consequences to the earth. What Mr. Montessori wrote about is happening right here and now – the balance has been upset. The children of today will be the ones to solve the issue or to face its consequences. Balance will be restored – the question is how and when?


Man has been endowed with specific gifts which place him above nature; he is still part of nature, but is a steward over it. Man has the capability to build up and to destroy, sometimes in the same deed. Man has the capability to take nature and make it something greater than it is in and of itself: this is man’s cosmic task – to work as co-creators, with God and with mankind, to develop relationships, establish and strengthen connections, sharing with the present and future generations, by building upon the gifts given us by previous generations. The key premise: real work.


Real work ensures that the experience of each child provides for the greatest exploration of mankind’s current knowledge and power such that each child’s potential is maximized; his contributions, in conjunction with others, will continue to be built upon and expanded upon, until such a time as the work is complete.


But as each child is pursuing his own efforts, should he always be mindful of the contributions he is making for others? Not necessarily. Just as the wind, the corals, the insects, the plants, all carry out their seemingly selfish pursuits for their own preservation, they are unconsciously serving a greater purpose. As man takes these components of nature and utilizes them in a way that brings about further benefit to other inhabitants of the universe, each component becomes greater than its own nature. While mankind, beginning with the child, strives for that connection with others, it is sometimes in the seemingly selfish pursuits of self-construction of the young child and pursuit of personal interests of the elementary child in which lay the foundation for the discovery of the adolescent’s and adult’s personal cosmic task. “Each takes something from the environment, but each gives much more than it takes.” But the child is different from the rest of creation – he is aware of a greater purpose beyond his own self and he yearns to make a connection with that purpose, wondering what is his place within the cosmos; even as he cannot make out all the details, he is aware of something outside of himself, greater than himself. It is through real work and proper guidance that the child grows in his understanding and appreciation.


Through the child’s work in the elementary environment, provided in a manner which fulfills his psychological characteristics of imagination, wonder and awe, intellectual thirst, and sense of justice, he comes to a sense of gratitude: “Not by preaching, said Dr. Montessori, but by fitting them into the various expressions of activity peculiar to their tendencies of the children of this age, experience to help imagination, possibility of research of concentration, of active assimilation. They will arrive then, by themselves, to the realization of the contribution of God and Man and gradually develop not only appreciation but gratitude.”


It is through this gratitude that the child will be encouraged, invited, enticed to continue the work of mankind through the ages, uniting his efforts to all those who have come before, all those who are here with us now, and all those who are yet to come – until such a time as the work of mankind reaches its final perfection: peace among men.

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Monday, February 22, 2010

Catechesis of the Good Shepherd Musings

I am both happy and sad to see this final CGS weekend come up - happy because I LOVE the training (always have!) and this is the last of the last.


There is talk of an atrium for the younger ones, but I’ve had my son in the 3-6 year old atrium since he was 1, and have had other 1-2 year olds join us, so I’ve seen those modifications – I’ve made them! I’ll be interested in learning others’ experiences and insights, but the training itself, if ever offered, I likely will not take.



And for older kids, if they have gone through the entire atrium, they know how to study Scripture and church teaching at a much deeper level than the norm and each parish and each class have to make their own adjustments from there. There will likely never be an adolescent training.



So this is it. I'm sad to see it end in a way. This is the one thing for which I have routinely sacrificed my child with very few qualms. I am a mom above all else and it has been difficult to give up that role for a day or for a weekend. But the fruits reveal the root – and the fruits of this work are beautiful.



I can't say I've learned too much MORE while in this training (I have a degree in theology, studying at two well-to-do, reputable Catholic universities), though I have certainly learned some new things; I have been able to go much deeper with it; study teachings with children (and adults); importance of so many key aspects that so many people think are frivolous to a child's upbringing, but are actually so essential.



Obviously, I'm still not a purist, but the lovely thing with CGS is that I don't have to be - CGS is not meant to be a "complete" religious ed program, meaning that when parents come and ask, "well when do they learn these particular prayers?" we can say, "You're doing those at home right?" Because while all prayers are used in potentiality, only particular ones are lifted up for meditation on specific lines, exploration of origin, etc.



And there is plenty of room for doing the Baltimore Catechism or other religious ed programs outside of the atrium. It's not part of it, but it's not exclusive either. They complement one another – one with a heart experience that leads to words and the other with a more or less strictly intellectual experiments that feeds the longing of the heart to understand.



I look forward to being a trainer, so I know this is not the last training for me; it’s simply the last one on which I’ll be a participant only. In many ways, being a trainer will help me to continue to grow in this work, always learning from one another, addressing questions, exploring Scriptures and church teachings in another light.



I am happy because I get another weekend of CGS training! I am sad because this is the last of the trainings. I am happy because this starts a new chapter in my CGS experience and my walk with God, but sad and a touch scared (nervous anticipation???) at the same time. It’s new territory. I am sad because I will be leaving my son, but I am satisfied that he will be in the care of cherished loved ones. I am both happy and sad that the full-effort album page writing and material making is coming to and end (I still have materials to make though!), but I know that in an effort towards ever-increasing simplicity, these things will continue on some level – and now I can be there to help others on their first steps.



Pray for me, please.

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Frugal Living?

A friend asked me to write up some blurbs on simple, inexpensive, (almost) all-natural living. It’s a work-in-progress (along with everything else in life!), but following are a few tidbits.

 

When it comes to alternative solutions, I have a few requirements before I make a change:

 

Glorify God: Above all else, God must be part of every aspect of our lives. If Mary lived today, would she make this choice for her family?

Frugal: must be inexpensive – or at least less expensive than the current product – I’ll pay more for something that meets all my other requirements, but money is precious so it’s a tough decision (ie I used to use Seventh Generation spray cleaner; but the cost became prohibitive during a particular year in our lives, so it had to go – we switched to baking soda, vinegar, water and occasional dish-soap on everything)

Easy to locate all necessary ingredients/products: my time and energy is precious too

Easy to prepare: did I mention the preciousness of time?

Family participation: if the kids can’t use it or mix it up, then it just won’t work; I want the children to be able to help make things at home using natural materials so that they understand the connection between the things we utilize and their sources; also I need to not worry about locking things away from them for their safety

Safe for the environment: I’m not an environmentalist above all else – it’s just that God gave us stewardship over the earth and all its inhabitants and I want to take this responsibility seriously

Safe for our bodies: typical household cleansers make me physically ill – what are the long term affects?

 

If something fits all of this criteria, great! If not, I have to balance out whether it fulfills or enough or do we continue with our current practice or do we drop it altogether. Many times we have dropped the use of certain products completely rather than seek replacements, because nothing fulfilled enough of the above criteria.

 

And, for those who will ask: NO, I don’t do something just because everybody else is doing it – if it is something that becomes a huge stress, or requires more focus or time or energy than I am willing or wanting to give, or takes away time with God and family, or requires me to make sacrifices in other areas of life, it is just not worth “keeping up with the Jones’”. Not to mention that it is only in the last 100 years that many of our typical choices or products have become in vogue and we have already seen the dangerous results of some of those recent changes made without proper testing and slow implementation first.

 

Ensuing posts will focus on particular areas or products. Please share other ideas in comments, but for the sake of focus, please keep them simple and straightforward.

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Mommy, you're dust!

And he's not dust, because he wiped his off???? I thought I had heard Father say the same words to him as to me: Man, remember you are dust and to dust you shall return.

I had a brainstorm at about midnight last night, that I actually remembered this morning upon waking: rocks. We'll use rocks for our prayer table! (I did say I thought of this at midnight, right? It all sounds logical at that time).

It's a bit contrived, but I think provides a really good hands-on concrete demonstration of the concept of sacrifice. Each time my son or I is "successful" with a sacrifice, we can place a rock on the table behind the prayer table (a table which serves as backdrop for the liturgical season). At the end of Lent, before he awakes Easter morning, I'll exchange the rocks with a larger number of polished stones, as part of our Easter decorations. A few theological ideas came out throughout the day: when we store up treasures on earth, the world recognizes them for what they are - but we are called to store up treasures in heaven - and the world does not always recognize their inherent value. The rocks we are using are ugly. Plain. (Ok, most of them came from the gravel parking lot at one of the parishes where I work - the other came from outside the parish hall –to be returned when we're done). The world sees fasting and sacrifices as pointless, plain, boring, too hard and therefore worthless, etc. But the treasures we store up in heaven, are passed through the hands of Our Lady who freshens them up, making them more beautiful, before they reach Our Lord - hence MORE polished stones than we will have rocks.

Now if I could just get off my little current long enough to stop taking rocks away with naughty behavior (both of us would have been in the hole with rocks by noon if I'd stuck with that rule). We did "give" each other rocks for what we each deemed thoughtful things on the part of the other person. I'm not sure what the family behind us thought during Mass when I was told "Mommy, I'll give you a hundred rocks so I can play with your hair!" only to be told 5 minutes later that I wasn't nice and I would losing all of my rocks. ;)

This year, we are doing things a little different:
*no computer when le Petit Prince is awake unless we’re doing something together


*attend Mass at least 4 times a week (this might mean being at church at 6:30 in the morning! And NOT central time zone 6:30, which I could almost do!)
*movies on Saturdays only (le Petit Prince says Monday, so maybe)
*meat on Sundays only (wanted to give it up entirely, but a week of being sick left enough meat in the freezer that won't last until Easter)
*no non-required purchases (vehicle maintenance/replacement aside); groceries only during the first week of the month and minimal
*no candy, but some sweet things on the weekends is fine
*volunteer at the semi-local Pregnancy Crisis Center (nothing is local here!)
*purge items that could go to the PCC or another family
*weekly Stations of the Cross at the parishes
*finish re-sewing chapel veil to fulfill the employer's request of making it smaller
*begin Catechesis of the Good Shepherd training - level 3
*say a novena regarding the continuation of the elementary Montessori training
*don’t let morning prayers slip by



We get a rock every time we fulfill one of the above as well as for thoughtful gestures as pointed out by the other person.



EDITED LATER: It worked pretty well actually. We left town for Easter weekend and I conveniently forgot something after we were in the car so I came back in to swap the rocks and stones - when we arrived back home, he went straight for the prayer table and LOVED it! We ended up creating flowers to "plant" in the colored stones for every day of Easter, showing that life comes from anything when we depend on God.